Relationship Skills

Not how you feel about relationships. How skilled you are at the things they actually require.

Relationships fail for the same reason most things fail: not because people don't care, but because they lack specific skills. Communication, conflict, repair, vulnerability, regulation, boundaries — these are competencies, not personality traits. They can be measured. They can be built.

For each statement, choose how consistently it describes you in your closest relationships. Be honest — this is for you.

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